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I do not profess to be an expert in online dating, but I remember those days when I did not dare to go out and meet women, and it was one of the things I tried and experimented around with. I noticed a couple of things that worked. So, for those guys who do not know how to meet women outside of your home, fret not. Online dating is a very viable solution.

What I am about to say here is purely based on experience; it might or might not work for you. I am still testing out some new stuff here and there, but I am pretty sure it will help anyone who wants to try online dating.

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Girls are just bitches to me.

Can anyone identify with that line? I used to think like that. Girls would treat me really bad, despite me being the perennial nice guy. I mean, which girl would love a nice guy? You gotta be a jerk to get the chick. Right?

I remember the days when I thought girls loved money, looks, and bad boys. I encountered many of them. There were those who always talked about having me give them a treat, those who swooned over the masculine dudes who seemed like they hit the gym everyday, and those who just adored the dude who would kick your ass if you just said the wrong word to them. Hell, I even knew a girl who loved her boyfriend even though he hit her!

So it’s the girls right? There was nothing wrong with me at all. I mean, I am nothing but nice! Well, guess what? It was me!

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When I was 19, I got to know this girl from one of my classes. We didn’t talk much at first, but one day, we went for a group lunch, and our interaction went amazingly well. It was one of those rare moments when you just click with someone without knowing why. Soon, we were hanging out almost everyday. We couldn’t stop talking to each other; there was an endless run of topics. Over time, I developed feelings for her. But I asked myself why a great girl like her would have feelings for someone like me. I had no money, no looks, and was a boring and dull person. I began to avoid her.

I never stopped liking her though. After about half a year, I decided to talk to her again. We had an honest conversation, and I found out that she was attracted to me then. I tried to chase her back, but it was too late. She was already in a relationship.

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Many people wade through their lives without goals. In many self-improvement books, goal setting is essential if you wish to succeed in any aspect of your life. I set out to improve my social life two years ago, and never looked back. But I was kind of shooting in the dark without any goals, until I decided to sit down proper and write them out.

For anyone who’s looking to improve their social lives, ask yourself this. What do you want out of it? To get to know more people? Networking? To be better at conversation? Each goal has different paths to getting there; otherwise you won’t know how to get there.

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