Social. Savvy. Suave.

How to attract women (II)

Cyrano — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 12:27:58 +0000

In this post, I will be talking about the universal traits that attract women. For those who missed the first post, read about what is unattractive first. So… what is attractive then? There are some universal traits which many people will have heard about. Women are always talking about confidence being sexy. [...]

How to attract women (I)

Cyrano — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:33:24 +0000

This post will centre on how to attract women, but of course, some of the tips mentioned can help women in their romantic lives as well. Although this topic has been quite done to death, I feel that there are some things which are overlooked constantly. As such, this post (and the next [...]

How do I know if a girl is interested in me?

Cyrano — Tue, 04 Mar 2008 06:42:13 +0000

Before I start, I would like to clarify my subject header. When I say “interested in me”, it means the girl wants to find out more, and not necessarily that she is strongly attracted and wants to date me right away. NOTE: Although I am using my male perspective instead of assuming a unisex [...]

Mindset.

Cyrano — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 17:07:27 +0000

*Throughout this article, I will sprinkle links that are related to the paragraph before it. When I first started looking for ways to improve my social life, I wanted quick fixes. I wanted to have the techniques that enabled me to walk into a room, talk to anyone, have them love me for my wit [...]

A dating breakdown (II)

Cyrano — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 09:12:28 +0000

This interaction is Part 2 of 2. Read Part 1 if you haven’t done so. Monday came around. I originally didn’t have plans to meet up with Tiffany. She was at work until 4pm, and I was supposed to have an appointment. We had chatted over the weekend while she was at [...]

A dating breakdown (I).

Cyrano — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 09:00:56 +0000

I am going to break down an interaction between a girl and me. We met online and progressed to SMS, before meeting in person. To protect her privacy, her name has been changed. I had messaged Tiffany in one of the social networking websites. At first glance, I thought she was cute, and [...]

Frame.

Cyrano — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 07:07:59 +0000

One of the things that I learned since trying to fix my social self and lifestyle is frame. In laymen’s terms, it’s the strength of your personality. People who are the life of parties have strong personalities, so strong that they can suck you into their reality. You are living their world [...]

The secret ways to changing…

Cyrano — Sun, 20 Jan 2008 12:52:15 +0000

Warning: Don’t be evil! I have a secret for you. This is something everyone knows about, but they don’t consciously use it. It’s part of human nature, but it is so manipulative that if you realised its power, you will understand what you can do to get what you want. But don’t [...]

Online dating.

Cyrano — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 16:53:31 +0000

I do not profess to be an expert in online dating, but I remember those days when I did not dare to go out and meet women, and it was one of the things I tried and experimented around with. I noticed a couple of things that worked. So, for those guys who [...]

Start blaming yourself! (Dating version)

Cyrano — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 22:22:59 +0000

Girls are just bitches to me. Can anyone identify with that line? I used to think like that. Girls would treat me really bad, despite me being the perennial nice guy. I mean, which girl would love a nice guy? You gotta be a jerk to get the chick. Right? I remember [...]