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In this post, I will be talking about the universal traits that attract women. For those who missed the first post, read about what is unattractive first.

So… what is attractive then? There are some universal traits which many people will have heard about. Women are always talking about confidence being sexy. But how do you get confidence? Now, confidence alone can cover a post, but I shall try to keep it short.

True confidence comes from within. It is not affected by external factors. While it is true that you can gain true confidence over time by getting external validation, thus validating yourself, it is a process that takes much longer than directly seeing and accepting your own value.

A friend of mine and I had a discussion about this before, and he said that he lacked confidence because he didn’t have money, women in his life, and he did not feel like he was good-looking enough for women to want him. I threw a question at him, asking if he would be confident if he had money, women, and good looks, and he said yes. But what if it’s all gone again? You might question that anyone who lost everything will definitely lose confidence. That’s true, but real confidence comes from understanding that he/she can gain back whatever was lost. True confidence shows in resilience, in positivism, in enthusiasm about life.

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This post will centre on how to attract women, but of course, some of the tips mentioned can help women in their romantic lives as well. Although this topic has been quite done to death, I feel that there are some things which are overlooked constantly. As such, this post (and the next 2) will be talking about what is not attractive, the universal traits that attracts women, and the overlooked attributes that will help men.

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Before I start, I would like to clarify my subject header. When I say “interested in me”, it means the girl wants to find out more, and not necessarily that she is strongly attracted and wants to date me right away.

NOTE: Although I am using my male perspective instead of assuming a unisex one, many of what I will mention applies to both sexes.

Action is louder.

A girl can say many things, but I will always watch out for her actions. Why do I say that? It’s body language. It’s on the level where nobody can lie (although with female orgasms, that’s always debatable ). If I am tired, my eyes will show. I can fake my posture, my mannerisms, but I won’t be able to fake my eyes. There was a research that showed that a person’s pupils will dilate when they see something that captures their attention. Needless to say, that’s your first clue.

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This interaction is Part 2 of 2. Read Part 1 if you haven’t done so.

Monday came around. I originally didn’t have plans to meet up with Tiffany. She was at work until 4pm, and I was supposed to have an appointment. We had chatted over the weekend while she was at work, and there were suggestions from both of us that a date was inevitable. That morning, she shared more about herself with me. But it was her contribution to our conversation, the vibe, the implications in her words, and everything else that told me she was more than ready to meet me.

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