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This interaction is Part 2 of 2. Read Part 1 if you haven’t done so.

Monday came around. I originally didn’t have plans to meet up with Tiffany. She was at work until 4pm, and I was supposed to have an appointment. We had chatted over the weekend while she was at work, and there were suggestions from both of us that a date was inevitable. That morning, she shared more about herself with me. But it was her contribution to our conversation, the vibe, the implications in her words, and everything else that told me she was more than ready to meet me.

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I am going to break down an interaction between a girl and me. We met online and progressed to SMS, before meeting in person. To protect her privacy, her name has been changed.

I had messaged Tiffany in one of the social networking websites. At first glance, I thought she was cute, and wanted to find out more about her. I didn’t come up with any interesting lines. Instead, I just messaged her, “Hey man. How’s it goin?”

For simplicity’s sake, I shall list out our message log, before going into my thoughts.

She: Gd…Workin now…at (Location)

I: You’re sneaking around to use the Internet, aren’t you?! Very good! I like your rebellious nature. I would so do that!

She: You sound like a Play boy! Hmmmm look like one too

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One of the things that I learned since trying to fix my social self and lifestyle is frame. In laymen’s terms, it’s the strength of your personality. People who are the life of parties have strong personalities, so strong that they can suck you into their reality. You are living their world by then, not yours. Frame is what makes someone really stand out. It is also what allows them to navigate the social scene easily. More importantly, it is the main characteristic that will allow someone to get away with almost anything.

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Warning: Don’t be evil!

I have a secret for you. This is something everyone knows about, but they don’t consciously use it. It’s part of human nature, but it is so manipulative that if you realised its power, you will understand what you can do to get what you want. But don’t tell anyone else about this…

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